When Numbers Tell the Story

Understanding Mating

“By the Numbers”

 When someone tells you that they gave 101% in whatever they did, how it was possible to give more then 100%, as 100% is considered perfect.

After thinking for a few minutes, none of the others including my sister could come up with an answer. The priest finally told them to figure out the answer using the English alphabet and the number system. He gave an example where A = 1, B = 2, etc. through the alphabet

Here is what the priest showed them.

A + 1, B = 2, C = 3, D = 4, E = 5, F = 6, G = 7, H = 8, I = 9, J = 10, K = 11, L = 12, M = 13, N = 14, O = 15, P = 16, Q = 17, R = 18, S = 19, T = 20, U = 21, V = 22, W = 23, X = 24, Y = 25, and Z = 26.

The next part of the challenge was to come up with a word or phrases that made sense and add the numbers associated with the letters and write the total. My sister and the others said that it would not be very difficult to do, so they sat around a table and came up with some words that could be what was needed to equal 101%.

One of the words or phrases was, Hard Work, and another was Knowledge. Yet another person came up with an even better word and that was Attitude. What they did was to write the word with the number associated with each letter of the word or phrase and came up with. Hard Work = 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98% , Knowledge = 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%, and Attitude = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

 A Loving Man = 108
A Loving Woman = 146

* It takes a lot for a man to be a loving man,
but for a woman to be a loving woman, it takes even more. (Interesting!!!)

Maybe
Man and Woman both may need to complain less about their roles, and focus more on the work it takes to meet the role as:
* A Loving Man
* A Loving Woman

For them to become:

A Loving Relationship = 226

Wife = 43
Husband = 69

For A Loving Woman to become a “Wife” it is less of a challenging situations for her. Because it takes more for her to FIRST become A Loving Woman.

For A Loving Man to become a Husband it is more of a challenging situation for him. Because it takes less for him to FIRST become A Loving Man.

Men make it less conditional in his being “A Loving Man”. Within himself.
Women make it more conditional in her being “A Loving Woman”
this simply means,
Men do not necessarily make it hard within himself to be one who is “A Loving Man”,
Women make it more hard within herself to be one who is “A Loving Woman”.

If we look at life, men don’t care about all the vain things a woman cares about before he will be a” A Loving Man”.
Women places conditions, test and trials and expectations, ahead of her simply being “A Loving Woman”.

(I guess the numbers don’t lie)

If a woman is able to become “A loving Woman”, then not only is she suitable to be a wife, it become relatively easy for her to live as being a Wife.

If a man is able to become “A Loving Man”,  it becomes more of a responsible effort in being a “Husband”.

 A Loving Man = 108

A Loving Woman = 146

 Many men are too weak to become: A loving Man, and the options are, he become less, which can be a thief, an abuser, a user and many of such things.  [I]None of such things will render this man to become a Loving Man, and certainly not a Husband who is responsibly so in being a husband. [/I]

Many women are too weak to become: A Loving Woman, and the options are, she becomes less, which can be a hooker, a tramp, a swindler, a user and many of such things.

None of such things will render this woman to become A Loving Woman, and certainly not a Wife who is at ease and peace in being a wife..

 If any expect and think a relationship is not about work.. then they are in it for the wrong reasons.

  • Work is Love and Love is Work.

“Work is love made visible. And if you can’t work with love, but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of the people who work with joy”
Kahlil Gibran

Proverbs 18:9
One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys.

Colossians 3:23
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

Psalm 128:2
You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours.

Work can be fulfilling, but it can also be the cause of great frustration.
Honest toil, done in a joyful spirit, is like a prayer to God.

It takes more to be a Hooker than a wife….
Hooker = 72
Wife = 46
which means its easier to be a Hooker than A Loving Woman who is a Wife, because one can’t be a Wife without being A Loving Woman.

It takes more to be a Tramp than a wife….
Tramp= 68
Wife = 46
which means its easier to be a Tramp than A Loving Woman who is a Wife, because one can’t be a Wife without being A Loving Woman.

A combination of a: Tramp = 68 + Hooker = 72 = 140
is still less than
A Loving Woman =146  yet, cannot be a wife, because first they must become “A Loving Woman

Even more break down by the numbers…

It takes more to be a Lesbian than a wife….
Lesbian = 62
Wife = 46
which means its easier to be a Lesbian than A Loving Woman who is a Wife, because one can’t be a Wife without being A Loving Woman.

A Trip, because in life, women often choose the easy way they assume, to do and be anything that avoids the works it takes to be A Loving Woman.

Maybe, That’s why its so easy for so many women, to choose, being a hooker, a tramp and/or lesbian… because they are too weak to put in the work to be “A Loving Woman”.

The Easiest Thing is – Not always the Easiest thing, if one has aspirations and Aims to be “A Loving Woman”..

It takes even less and is far easier to be a “Bitch” than a wife….
Bitch = 42
Wife = 46

Therefore a man must know the difference between what it takes for a woman to be a Wife, because FIRST AND FOREMOST, SHE MUST BE “ A LOVING WOMAN, and what is one who is a Bitch, that pretend to be a Wife, IS NOTA Loving Woman.

Which means it’s easier to be a Bitch than A Loving Woman who is a Wife, because one can’t be a Wife without being A Loving Woman.

Therefore, the easiest thing of all for a woman to be is a “Bitch”…. sadly, many choose this options right away….

IF AS WOMAN, YOU SEEK TO BE A WIFE, SEEK FIRST TO BE A LOVING WOMAN,  THEN SEEK, A LOVING MAN.  YOU SHALL FIND THEN A HUSBAND

IF AS  MAN, YOU ARE SEEKING TO BE A HUSBAND, SEEK FIRST TO BE A LOVING MAN, THEN SEEK, A LOVING WOMAN…..   YOU SHALL THEN FIND A WIFE.

Proverbs: 18-22

 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD

 Douay-Rheims Bible

He that hath found a good wife, hath found a good thing, and shall receive a pleasure from the Lord. He that driveth away a good wife driveth away a good thing: but he that keepeth an adulteress is foolish and wicked.