How Much … Do We Understand Love

It is such a powerful composition of “everything”.   Some of us have experienced love in many ways over the course of our living, family love, friends, lovers, artistry love and the endless perspectives of which love is experienced and expressed.

What we may take pleasure, pride and value to know is, “Every experience of Love’s Expanse” enriches us and becomes a part of whom we are and whom we will continue to become.

Discount none of whom you have loved and shared love for the good things it gave into your being, but equally so, the challenging things help us learn temperament, cautions, tolerances and many other things, including so much about ourselves as too, of loves meanings in our lives.  

Often we have to step through the emotional whirlwind when these loves end their term of interaction.  When we trudge through, as time and its passing come; we too, come to understand so much more about ourselves and others. We strengthen our principles and if we can avoid the anguish spectrum and not hold resentment and bitterness, then we can embrace the joys and pleasures of what we have gained through the experiences.

Love is always the teacher and the preacher within our soul, when we hold fast to appreciate and come to re-appreciate its wondrous gifts.

We, many of us had the “young loves”, they have great impact in our lives – We learn so much about ourselves and we come to learn so much about others; and the experiences of and through their impacts and their emotions as well as many things not even of consciences awareness continue to improve us, as the essence of the one(s) we loved reside within us for the term of our living – overall – making us better in being whom we’ve become.

God gives us these experiences at various times in our living, both in long term and short term spans, some may find itself connected and remain connected in active interactive loving for the span of their collective lives.  Treasure each as being “Beautiful”, as love and its experiences is a great gift Gods glory has blessed us to have and experience.

 

Somebody’s Lover

Its like many things from the sun shining early morning, to the blue skies hidden above the clouds… you gotta wanna be somebody’s lover… !!!!!
This is all within a day…
You never feel so grand nor so full and delightfully light and frisky, until you want to be somebody’s lover.

It makes the troubles turn to nothing but the creative things and ways to find joy with the jigsaw puzzles of living. things take shape and pictures of the heart and vision within the mind become to make up the moments of reality.
Being somebody’s lover… it teaches us to love, but shows us how to enjoy living.
Being somebody’s lover makes us appreciate things otherwise we’d take for granted.

Being somebody’s lover– opens our eyes and inspires our mind, joyful things we find and delights we make and hold tight.

Flowers in the fields become like private gardens of beauty and tumble weeds become of interest watching them move and dance across the desert floor.

Being somebody’s lover.. the blood heats and cleanse the arteries, the heart pumps and all our body comes alive with vigor…. the magic of loving is far beyond a self contained wish and fantasy..
Being somebody’s lover makes all real and give us things so amazing to feel.

We can make games and cheat ourselves from this wondrous feeling, we can manipulate and defeat our own joy, we can play trips and find that we’ve fallen upon ourselves, all the while, we may find we cry, because its ourselves we deny….
Be somebody’s lover, gives life the opportunity to take wings and help us fly in the spirit of life and spread our wings in the joy of loves reality.

We can’t know of loves grace, until we look in somebody’s face , eye to eye, with the desire to be – somebody’s lover without a game or a lie.

Give it a try…. and loving won’t pass you by.

Journey where you Love

~Journey where you Love ~It takes what many fear giving… the simplicity, of appreciation”…
If vanity is your claim to self stature, then you’ve already found the fool within the making of what is yourself.

If you’ve come to thing that fashion is making your more than a person who can give and share, then you’ve cast your own soul into the abyss of being bought for a delusions and pushing nothing more than an illusion.

When you ride the back of a claim of degree and think it has made you above others or another, you’ve already sank to the low and missed the value and the treasure of compassion and respectful regard of others.

if the shape of your #ss and the bulge in your chest has you inflated in the minds, you’ve already diminished what of character that might otherwise be found.

by all means yes care to take care, be of care to maintain a body that is desirable, but let not the eyes of lust make you become a fool, who quickly becomes unaware of how to be a person of grace with a manner and nature of being a communicable social human being.

If you think the attractions of your tease is all that float your boat, you probably will be lost in the sea of life… playing games with ships that pass in the night… by morning you find another day is gone and you are still alone.

why delude yourself to pretend you are a queen, when life facts is that you are not, you ae simply a person, living while you can, because one day you too will pass as is true for us all.
There is no guarantee of tomorrow, but you deny yourself the chance to love today… you fein the appreciations given to you, and act like you detest the desire that is shown of you… and still within self elation and sitting on an imaginary throne,… you still find yourself alone.

Oh how time flies within the delusion so many create within their vanity of self. How little of love so many know, because loving and sharing is something they don’t share nor show.

What does it gain other than delusion that deflate and people claim they have time to wait. Time is a one way gate…

Journey where you “love”… and you may find the delights of living.

                                                           Explore the Experiences

Looking to be “Entertained” ?

[Are you] Looking to be “Entertained’ ?
( Review of such, might reveal much)

If and as many seek out others only to be entertained, then one may be better off simply going to the circus, if they expect to be ‘entertained”..
Unfortunately that is what so many relations are based upon, or turn relationships into expectations of being entertained.. The pursuit and focus of “being entertained” often times becomes the predominant reason so many broken relations come into being within a short time.

“Many people are simply seeking to be “entertained”, the minutes the circus acts stop they are ready to go and claim that love is gone”.

Few want to even explore to see those elements of how they approach and how they function within relationships.as being one who is “seeking to be entertained”.
But upon review, if people listen to what they utter they might find they were chasing infatuation only as long as they felt ‘entertained’.

They never last to get to reality of fact that life involves many other things and as individuals there is whole lives involved, and they might stop to learn : neither is nor will be and neither can be a ‘constant entertainer”.

Fantasy chase of the laugh a minute relations as if it is some mid evening ‘sit-com” is the simplicity and silliness of why people can’t sustain relationships beyond the ‘ infatuated cycle of being the entertainer”.

The minute they have to sit in a moment of silence, they immediately want to ask, “what’s wrong”… instead of accepting the fact that the other may have found contentment by simply sharing the mutual presence in a moment of simple self indulged silence.

We hear all too often, people saying, ” I like him or her, because they make me laugh”... or saying, “they want someone who makes them laugh” , Why Not want someone, to share life and time with… Period. ‘Why does your mate have to become an entertainer, to share time and life experiences with you.

When people based their relation and even their attraction on such things, what they are basically saying is: “they are seeking an entertainer in their desire to be entertained”, they are not seeking a mate to share the cycles of ups down which are an ingrained part of any valued relationship, the human reality is mixed with the cycles of non humor moments and the many things that make up life and living.

The minute someone is not making them laugh they become sullen, instead of learning how to laugh at yourself, laugh with yourself and share the whole of self even when one is not laughing. It is a certain and given fact there is times which bring moment when there is nothing to laugh about. It becomes many more serious considerations that sprang up in the course of living.

Then there are the ones who are always seeking someone to make them laugh, and then in a moment’s situation, they suddenly want to flip to be serious and get angry when the other makes a pun or a humor nature comment. At such times it is very likely the response is: “this is not funny”, followed by “you think everything is a joke”…
But they never stopped to think, “they started the relations and built it and based it on , the other making them laugh”. Too many set up an aim for love, with the concept of relationship being based on “being entertained”..

Enjoy the moments of humor, interject humor as much as is suitable in the relation, but also be of keen awareness that not all moments will be filled with humor, not will all situations lead to an instant laugh.

If people understand that, they may be able to accept being loved even when they are not being “entertained”.

by all means let the natural humor of life be within the relation, but based not your love and loving on someone making you laugh, because at some point, that same basis will also be the point that will make you not want to love…

Accepting love and being loving is of many things, so be careful with the claim of what you base love upon… Lest it be ” I love you, simply because I do”.

Some claim they love, ‘because” they feel financially secure, then the moment the finances changes, they don’t love anymore.
Some claim they love “because” of this or that… and when those things change within the cycles of living, suddenly, they claim they are not in love anymore.

Learn to love – the person as a whole being”, “as an individual” .. and you might learn to love for the sake of loving the person whom you’ve chosen.

… Don’t cry when the laughter is not present, because there is a life behind the show, and the situational entertainer is too a person. And no one stays on the stage without a break within the cycles of entertainment

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But if you are seeking only to be “entertained” – then you can expect to have a short lived relationship… and “you” are probably equally as much of the cause of its shortness.

Do you want love, or do you just like the game of “chase” and “to be chased” ?

Love is no respecter of individuals, love remains what it is, it is universal in what it is, it can function across any man created barrier, or any conjured concept that man hangs on to.
Love does not regard nor favor any ethnicity, nor any skin color,; and it favors no gender or any of such things, and love does not have a preference for any particular age.
Love is of many principles, which can only be embrace mutually by shared honestly and expressive communications.
It remains always a feeling, which has a spiritual connection within the essence of all living beings and things.
It is unique in being what it is, and it bring about the uniqueness of each individual –
We as people blind ourselves with the deceptions of our own eyes and many times the lusting for the material matter that is surely to come and go with time…
Yet, love is of the spirit, and it is everlasting as being Love.

Those who can endure the many emotions within what makes up love, will find more love… within the truths and honesty they live and share.

You can try and steal the sweetness as if robbing honey from a honey comb, and one may get stung by the bee’s – but with love, the bee’s yield their honey and continue to make more.

Most can’t find love, because many refuse to let go of their own selfishness.

Love is to be shared as freely as the breeze shares it comforts, Love is to be shared the same as sunshine denies no plant the nourishment’s it needs to live.

So many delude themselves to only see the fantasy of their lust for romantic fancy, but neglect to consider and some don’t care for the labors and works that are embedded within Love.

Many who find that 40- 50 and beyond years of love, have learned to give and share freely… and each will tell you of the many sacrifices and change and growths they have gone through to build such an enduring loving relation… simply because they cared to ” Love’

The world is lonely only when our selfishness brings us to ignore and deny to engage the works of loving. which is simply learning to share and communicate, to respect and appreciate, to work to understand and work on being understood..
when the selfishness of individual, make an individual lazy and fearful of such things, then they have made themselves lonely, by their denial to embrace Love, and become one who is sharing the expressions and exchanges of loving.

Seek not love through sympathy by the cries of desperation.. but share what of love you know and what of loving you have to share in jubilation… and time will find one enchanted within a loving relation.

“The Perfect Person”

“The Perfect Person”

A delusion… that confounds many

The adult sized fantasy of “a perfect person”, is probably one of the elements of imagination and delusion, that has driven people “mad” for Centuries upon Centuries.

Temptations will always haunt the individual, and the illusion of perfect is not even a conceptual image in the minds of an individual, because every day, they will want to change something else about the other, and themselves.

It’s amazing how we can be adults and claim to be so intelligent and so learned and then become less equipped than an infant in our concepts of how to simply appreciate the uniqueness of the individualism of human existence.

It seems the older some get the more insidious they become, in search of a delusion that they themselves have not found out how to live up to even within themselves.

The Grand Delusion seems to be a sickness that comes with the concepts of claiming to be learned people. maybe it’s why many of the poor and those nation and people around the world who don’t claim such high intellect, still know how to love for the sake and principle of love, even when they are without the conveniences, and the luxuries that the so claimed learn have in abundance.

The great paradox of “self-delusion” is not a sickness that many seem not to want diagnosed nor will they acknowledge the need for the diagnosis.

Loving don’t give a damn about anyone’s claim of degree or work status titles, at best it can and will continue to make them try and see how foolish their aim and claim of reliance on such, brings them to see that none of such claims can ever nor will ever give nor guarantee them any claim to a care free “love”…
And most people run around looking for a ‘care free” love, and caught in the delusion of the chase of such, until they can’t many time figure out how to love themselves enough to have it over flow into wanting to share it with someone else. Instead, they are lost in their status titles and their claims of be learned. But they are and often times become only more pronounced in their ignorance of what is love and what is the nature of works required within loving.

Today, we have more and more people who claim themselves too good for building love, because they are too absorbed in their titles, and their claims of status they focus upon to try and embellish their titles. And the result is a mass of loveless people, who claim to be so learned. None of which love as the fact and principle of what is love cares one bit about such. We can see broke people who live on the streets who have love far greater and strong than some of those who claim to have degrees layered on top of degree’s or who have titles that pay them a kings bounty, and they often times become the worst at loving.

They try to outsmart love, and find themselves feeling more foolish as they wallow in their aloneness and crafted delusion of trying to outsmart the principles of love.

There will be many more to sit on a bench, withering to their skeletal selves, all the while deluding themselves to thing they are too smart and too learn and their titles and status claims make them too arrogant and haughty to know that love cannot be bought nor contained by such vain things. When truth and fact is, love flees quickly from Ignorance, and love does not bond itself within the haughty mind, nor does it seek to duel with the delusion of foolishness.

The adult sized fantasy of “a perfect person”, is probably one of the elements of imagination and delusion, that has driven people “mad” for Centuries upon Centuries..
Temptations will always haunt the individual, and the illusion of perfect is not even a conceptual image in the minds of an individual, because every day, they will want to change something else about the other, and themselves.

It’s amazing how we can be adults and claim to be so intelligent and so learned and then become less equipped than an infant in our concepts of how to simply appreciate the uniqueness of the individualism of human existence.

It seems the older some get the more insidious they become, in search of a delusion that they themselves have not found out how to live up to even within themselves.

The Grand Delusion seems to be a sickness that comes with the concepts of claiming to be learned people. maybe it’s why many of the poor and those nation and people around the world who don’t claim such high intellect, still know how to love for the sake and principle of love, even when they are without the conveniences, and the luxuries that the so claimed learn have in abundance.

The great paradox of “self-delusion” is now a sickness that many seem not to want diagnosed nor will they acknowledge the need for the diagnosis. “Self vanity seems to not allow the desire of such truth”.

Loving don’t give a damn about anyone’s claim of degree or work status titles, at best it can and will continue to make them try and see how foolish their aim and claim of reliance on such, brings them to see that none of such claims can ever nor will ever give nor guarantee them any claim to a care free “love”…
And most people run around looking for a ‘care free” love, and caught in the delusion of the chase of such, until they can’t many time figure out how to love themselves enough to have it over flow into wanting to share it with someone else. Instead, they are lost in their status titles and their claims of be learned. but they are and often times become only more pronounced in their ignorance of what is love and what is the nature of works required within loving.

Today, we have more and more people who claim themselves too good for building love, because they are too absorbed in their titles, and their claims of status they focus upon to try and embellish their titles. And the result is a mass of loveless people, who claim to be so learned.
None of which composes love, as of being what is Love, nor is any of such the fact and principle of what is love is; such things, Love, cares not one bit about such. For Love is itself, fulfilled in being itself.

We can see broke people who live on the streets who have love far greater and strong than some of those who claim to have degrees layered on top of degree’s or who have titles that pay them a kings bounty, and they often times become the worst at loving.
They try to outsmart love, and find themselves feeling more foolish as they wallow in their aloneness and crafted delusion of trying to outsmart the principles of love.

There will be many more to sit on a bench, withering to their skeletal selves, all the while deluding themselves to think they are too smart and too learn and their titles and status claims make them too arrogant and haughty to know that love cannot be bought nor contained by such vain things. When truth and fact is, love flees quickly from Ignorance, and love does not bond itself within the haughty mind, nor does it seek to duel with the delusion of foolishness.

Love is the gift that lives in the shared lives of the humbled.

Education degree not required, money, not required, title nor status is required, for all such things have a proclivity to become vanity, and vanity is a vexing demeanor to what the essence and nature of beauty of that which love is.

Such things of vanity, only enrages the regenerating 20 head dragon that guards love, when they come with all their vain acclaims and crafted schemes.

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For the 20 head dragon only yields the gift of Loves endless graces, unto the humbled, who pursue the engagement unto loves many wonders within loving, who seek to know and to share “LOVE” within and through the honestly of Loving.

One can take money and buy a delusion of a million flairs, and by status claims one can impress a fool, to chase a delusion by painting imagines of illusions…
But unto love, only the humbled and honest who seek with truth of passion to love and be loving and accept the embrace of being loved, can truly know and behold the wonders of Love through humbleness unto loves graces and accept the duties within loves works.

Such a simple thing, many become too haughty within themselves to care to learn and many care even less to seek to understand, therefore.. Many fail to gain the wisdom’s of loves truths.

Love is the gift that lives in the shared lives of the humbled.

Education degree not required, money, not required, title nor status is required, for all such things have a proclivity to become vanity, and vanity is a vexing demeanor to what the essence and nature of beauty of that which love is.

 

Such things of vanity, only enrages the regenerating 20 head dragon that guards love, when they come with all their vain acclaims and crafted schemes,  for the 20 head dragon only yields to the humbled, who pursue the engagement unto loves many wonders within loving who seek to know and share love.

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Love is no respecter of individuals, love remains what it is, it is universal in what it is, it can function across any man created barrier, or any conjured concept that man hangs on to.
Love does not regard nor favor any ethnicity, nor any skin color,; and it favors no gender or any of such things, and love does not have a preference for any particular age.
Love is of many principles, which can only be embrace mutually by shared honestly and expressive communications.
It remains always a feeling, which has a spiritual connection within the essence of all living beings and things.
It is unique in being what it is, and it bring about the uniqueness of each individual –
We as people blind ourselves with the deceptions of our own eyes and many times the lusting for the material matter that is surely to come and go with time…
Yet, love is of the spirit, and it is everlasting as being Love.

Those who can endure the many emotions within what makes up love will find more love… within the truths and honesty they live and share.

You can try and steal the sweetness as if robbing honey from a honey comb and one may get stung by the bees – but with love, the bee’s yield their honey and continue to make more.

Most can’t find love, because many refuse to let go of their own selfishness.

Love is to be shared as freely as the breeze shares it comforts, Love is to be shared the same as sunshine denies no plant the nourishment’s it needs to live.

So many delude themselves to only see the fantasy of their lust for romantic fancy, but neglect to consider and some don’t care for the labors and works that are embedded within Love.

Many who find that 40- 50 and beyond years of love, have learned to give and share freely… and each will tell you of the many sacrifices and change and growths they have gone through to build such an enduring loving relation… simply because they cared to ” Love’

The world is lonely only when our selfishness brings us to ignore and deny to engage the works of loving. Which is simply learning to share and communicate, to respect and appreciate, to work to understand and work on being understood..
when the selfishness of individual, make an individual lazy and fearful of such things, then they have made themselves lonely, by their denial to embrace Love, and become one who is sharing the expressions and exchanges of loving.

Seek not love through sympathy by the cries of desperation. But share what of love you know and what of loving you have to share in jubilation… and time will find one enchanted within a loving relation.

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To claim love is hard, one should first review their expectations

Love is the simplest thing in this world, that requires the usage of all that one is…
If anyone is having difficulty with finding love, working with love and appreciating and respecting love..
then they first need look only within themselves.

If you have not and do not find love in your life and someone to share it with, the problem of such failure to do so.. is 100% within you.

Often times people ignore the myriad of expectations they have circling in their mind, the many biases they have hidden behind their reasons and excuses.
many times people hide their greed and their malice behind expectations encircled in selfishness. cover over by the vanity which inflates their ego…

And still many are so driven to be self consumed by their looks or the shape of their body or the bargains they encircle sex within, until they can’t even see their own self centered motivations which spins them in circles, as they play a massive interconnected circle of manipulation games, all with a selfish intent and a self serving objective.

This symbol depicts the focus, which is many times at the core of broken relations

The inability to choose is often times the outward exposure of an inner self that wants much by the confusion of viewing many.

Love functions by choice, it is the choice you make as well as those you don’t make which determine what of love is within one’s life.