Strange Stuff and Weird Things- “Who Actually Communicates”?

Insane stuff…
Headlines:
~In fatal Palm Springs shooting, 19-year-old son accused of killing mom
~A woman fatally shot her 17-month-old son and her husband, then tried to take her own life at their home
~Woman accused in fatal shooting of boyfriend’s 7-year-old son
~Man is charged with counts of first-degree murder after he gunned down his ex-wife and their children on Christmas Day
~A man killed his mother and then fired more than 100 rounds at police as her body lay in a yard during an -hour standoff before killing himself
~A mother was arrested and charged with shooting her 17-year-old son during an argument
~mother plotted, killed daughter’s fiancé to stop marriage

the list just goes on and on….
~then there is the long list of women teachers sexing up the students, that seems to be an endless string of such events.
“THE 50 MOST INFAMOUS FEMALE TEACHER SEX SCANDALS” that’s just the highly publicized.

I guess if the global atrocities were listed on a weekly or monthly basis, the list would be too long to read.

Maybe the best scenario for people is.. to “take time to learn each other” and not get hung up on some fancy instance, or image, and actually “find out about the reality of individuals”.

People do simple minded stuff – when trying to build relationships- instead of communicating like ” adults” openly and clearly.

Many people know that money becomes an issue in their lives, whether they have it or have none, long before they meet another person. It just might be beneficial and logical to talk to each other, to understand how each other “thinks about money”. Then it might just be beneficial to talk and find out, if each one respects the other as “an individual”, not as something to be owned or to own.
It might even benefit people to talk about “expectations”… “What do you expect from the other? can you handle your own personal issues without expecting the other person to do it for you? Do you know the religious or faith based thoughts of the other? What do you know of your own religious or faith based thoughts? Do you share those interactively.
when it comes to sex… just making eyes at each other is not enough, are you able to actually “talk” about what you like, are you able to say what you want, are you able to be honest with each other about your sexual considerations and thoughts?
What kind of chores do you expect from the other? Do you like to work and cover your contribution as a portion, or do you expect someone else to your portion for you?
do you barter sex as if its a game tool? Do you treat the other like a sex toy?
Do you attack the other if they don’t give or do what you want, or give or meet your desired expectation? If you have to get or do things for yourself, that you wanted or expected from another, are you vengeful, because you had to do it yourself?
Do you carry a grudge ? How long do you carry a grudge? do you make it a vendetta to get back at some you think may have disappointed your expectations or wants?

Not only will these questions people, learn each others, it can an individual learn about themselves. It just might people, not to be so quick to “blame” the others, when they can see clearly their own actions and reactive actions.

If your mate has and property before you meet them, why do you think you have a right to any of it? If you have or property before you meet some, do you want to give them rights to the and property you had before you met them? Do you believe only “jointly created property and jointly created is to be shared if you split ? Do you realize, you have no right to profit gains makes from or property they had before they met you? Do you realize, that you would not want to give the rights to any profit on or property you had before you met the other person.
If there are kids, what role and responsibility do you want to take on, and what do you want to share?

Considering the volume of people, breaking up, fighting, and killing each other, and killing the family… it might be a good thing to “talk about some of these things” before people start making relationship agreements to be each others mate.

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Me personally, I would not think I’m due any of a woman’s money, that she had before she met me, nor the profits she gained from her money while she is with me. ONLY, “joint investments” and profits from Joint investments should be split, and that should be done fairly.
I also don’t think if one has worked before they met their mate and invested in their pension before they met their mate, then there should be no 50% of the pension going to anyone. If anything, only the portion % during the time they were together.

No one should profit from the other, because the relationship did not work. Nor should one expect to get any proceeds from one they no longer want to be with.
Child support should be paid, by whom ever does not have the kids in their home. Nor do I think there should be an 50% time here and 50% time there, because children need “stability”. Visitor agreements are fine, it is up to the people involved to make that determinations in the kids best interest.

I just read that one state now will consider ‘Pets” in divorce. But again, if they were my pets before or her pets before, the pets should go to the one who initially owned the pets. If they got the pet after marriage, then they should work it out, they know who was the more focused care taker of the pet.

Life is such a thing.. that it is necessary that people “communicate about many of such things, before they make agreements of relationship, or marriage.

No one expects it to go bad, but reality is, not all marriage work, so… as people, it is important to “talk about many things” before any commitments are made. It is necessary to “write it out” and both sign it.

People claim it takes the romance out of a relationship. Well, it should not take any more romance away, than signing a marriage certificate. They are both and all documents of legality when it comes to marriage and when it comes to divorce.

I don’t have wealth or such, but I also don’t expect to become wealthy upon someone else money either, whether in marriage or in divorce.

Some people don’t like it that I talk about a variety of such things, but I have had many friends, who have come to talk about these very same things, when in the heat of divorce, and all of such things, they did not talk about while before marriage or during marriage.

Everyone should want a mate that is “open to talk about such things”.. and do it honestly and fairly. No person should feel “trapped”, or be caught in a situation where they can’t go on with their lives, because of issues where one wants to take from the other what is not truly theirs.

I never cared whether a woman had money or no money. The point of being together would be about sharing the maintenance and upkeep as a family, while together. What ever she had before, remains hers, and what ever I had before remains being mine, if the relationship does not work. Only what we mutually built together, is the only thing that is to be considered for dividing.

Men who don’t want women to work, is also making a choice that if the relationship fails, that he is responsible to give to her half of what was earned during the relationship, because he prohibited her from working and earning.

The simple thing of the Adam and Eve story is, what is real.. Man and Woman, become the “help mates of each other when they make agreement to be in relationship and marriage”. Not either obligated to do this or that as in selfishly scripted specifics, but; to help when and as they can, because each person should always remain being self responsible as an individual, therefore, they are then capable of being and remaining as a help mate.

Maybe the pomp and pageantry of elaborate weddings may put more fiction in the relationship than is necessary. It should be simply a gathering of friends and families, coming together to wish the best to the two people who are making a marriage.

Most people know… there is NO “Perfect Relationship”, the agreement is about ‘working together as help mates” who profess to share loving with each other.
There can’t be loving without first there being “honesty” and “communication”.
Anything short of that, is just the stage of “infatuation”. Work through the infatuation, and get to know the facts of self and the other, long before there is a agreement to become “married”. It may just work better in the long term for both.

Sadly, that level of patience often gets over-ridden by the glee of fancy about each other.
The vows discuss many things, and the crucial things it discusses, are often the things that bring relationships to an end. such as sickness, loss of money, life challenges, and other such things. These things have to be considered, as they are part of life that may befall anyone. Therefore, understanding the vows is quite important, for both to know exactly how the other feels and the capability of each other to uphold those things. Still things may not work out.
But, at least they will have discussed much, and may be able to part on amicable terms.

Love is filled with “everything”… from the good to the indifferent, and it will depend on how communication functions, as to how it turns out.

I meet people who have been married more than 50 yrs, I always congratulate them, and just recently while shopping, I met a woman, who said she and her husband had been married 54 yrs…. but she said… he is a good man, and I’ve always seen him as a good man, and it was not really difficult because he treats her well. I noticed, the affectionate tone in her voice, which indicates she too, treats him well.

No one can predict the future.

Therefore, in life, it is not uncommon for people to be married a 2nd time.

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Quote from Will Smith to his wife Jada Pickett-Smith:

“20 Years Ago Today we held hands and walked naively down that aisle. Here’s what I’ve learned since. . Love is Like Gardening… I have learned to focus on HELPING you to BLOSSOM into what YOU want to be (into what you were born to be)… Rather than Demanding that you become what my Fragile Ego needs you to be. . I’ve learned to take pleasure in Nourishing YOUR dreams… Rather than wrestling with you to Fulfill my Selfish Needs & Satiate My Insecurities. . I have learned that Love is Listening. Love is Giving. Love is Freedom. . Happy Anniversary, My Queen! I am forever Devoted to Nurturing your Deepest Truth.”.

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Reason is a good capability in mankind, but it also requires, “base values” gained from upbringing, experience, knowledge, thinking ability and personality.
I agree….
There is a great many who are ‘inflexible”, driven by various biases, bigotry and many other groomed influences. Often some of such types, give off signals of their rigidity and present many aspects in their daily living, which shows them to be mechanistically stiff.

For a great many, who do embrace the presence of compassion, who will use their ability of reasoning to make concessions for a variety of concerns and interest.

Some things we find reason to “let it go”… in doing so, at times, it means also cutting ties. Not everyone is as “advertised”…. and some people have agenda’s which consider nothing but their self concerned interest, as well as being driven by raw vanity, greed, envy, resentment and other such character types.

This leads back to the original post… “the need to communicate” , and some character types can be discerned from external viewing of conduct, and in such cases, we make instinctive decisions as well as other selective choices as to whether we will have interaction or not.

We’ve seen in society among things people do.. where some ‘return over and over to an abusive relationship”… it happens to men, and it happens to women where they seek ways to justify the other persons abuse, some even give blame upon self, as a means to justifying accepting abuse.

I’ve read many stores of people who are irrationally cruel, who lock kids in closets, cages, and other horrible conditions, as well as many other acts people do to others. This includes the wide range of mental infections they work to instill in others.

Society today, has so many people who do atrocious things to kids, as well as others…. and the wide range of the internet has made it possible to spread the news of the vast array of human abuses, depicted from around the world.

We can read many things and some of it is unfathomable how one could be so cruel and driven by such levels of inhumanity toward and upon and against others. There is historical documentation that continue to have added content everyday of these vile acts, which seem to have a cycle of perpetuation’s in people, homes, families and even within organizations and groups.

There is a need for spiritual principles which promote the respect of humanity, environments, systems and organizations of civil society as well as individualized self conduct.
It takes much work within self to learn and manage how we control our emotionally driven impulses.

We can learn so much in many ways from many things:

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Sometimes within living, unfortunate as it becomes to be, it take tribulations, pains, losses and other variable of challenges to move us from what many have been as to things with elements of vanity driving us…within aims that drove our initial choice.
Then when trouble and changes come, with its pains and pings, we move through to its truths, to get to a place, where we become better equipped to make “spiritually motivated choices”.
it takes time, as discussed in the initial posting, to “learn each other”. Then is when we find and choose a “love that works”…

We as People often get lots of things caught within the spins in what we think makes life… Great and Fulfilling.

First !!! we must come to learn – “No one gets everything”… yet through spirit we can learn to appreciate many things, and in moderation we can enjoy the things within our life and this world.

We always get a mix of the good, the bad and the indifferent. It’s up to us, to discern what we will give our focus unto as well as what become the choices for and of our spiritual motivations.

Life always brings us to points, that we have to come to learn, to make “Spiritually motivated choices”.
Choices that has less to do with money, image, status, title, sex, and all such things as such things are often connected to vain concerns.
Often we don’t even realize that many times our choice may have been driven by some sort of vanity, until pains awaken us through its challenges and calamities of various sorts.
. Then…. We come to learn the true value of what is “companionship” for the sake of our spiritual needs of self, to share and have shared the spiritual motivations and reality within and of as well as throughout our relationships.

It’s a hard lesson in life to learn many things and among such learning is, to learn:
Money is not the answer, it is simply a tool of convenience, it may to some provide convenience, and to others it can become a vice. Again, its up to the person to discern the focus they will give their spiritual motivations as it concerns money.

The same is true with sex, Sex is not the Answer. We come to learn that the delusion of think that getting more is suppose to make one happy, we over time come to find such thinking is a fallacy. We have to overcome the delusion that being pretty is suppose to makes ones sex organ function better than another, is one of the greatest fallacies that plagues man and woman. Such thinking has robbed many of the natural passions of which is natural to the spiritual appreciation of what is sex, and how it fits within life and relationships. No one can “screw themselves into happiness’.
If more sex was suppose to make people more happy, the sex workers and porn stars would be the happiest people on earth, but truth is: Time proves them to live through miseries and loose the value of even their conscience self, and some never gain awareness of their spiritual self, and some loose even the concept of value of their spiritual self, and struggle like crazy through much hell… trying to learn how to regain their spiritual self. . I’d say anyone and maybe everyone, should go read the stories of the “after porn life” for the people who have been the biggest stars in that industry”.. or the after life of sex workers when youth and other such things are it is not a pretty picture.

The Titans’ of the 1800’s and Early 1900’s found that wealth beyond belief did not make them happy, many became philanthropist, and came to the conclusion that to die with such volume of wealth was a greater tragedy, as many of the things they did to obtain it. They saw need to try and give back, to seek to balance out some good, for the damages they knew it cost, for them to build various industries, so they set up massive foundations and set out in a race, to see who could give back the most, but more so, who could do it in ways that benefits many generations to come.
Thus so, again… we see the premise of the “good, the bad and the indifferent” and the pursuit of Spiritual motivations becoming the desired pursuit of individual, to discern the need among the choices, to seek means and ways to do good. Not just for themselves but for others.

Therefore, in the tragedy challenges within and of relations and the trial and tribulations of divorces that some encounter. It still comes down to the spiritual motivations within ones own soul, that become the salvation that helps them find the more spiritual self within themselves.

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It does not matter what ethnicity, or gender, nor the age one is… the nature of challenge in relationships and self is the same. The challenge is, for spiritual bonding within building and sustaining love and making relationships that have communion and unity within spiritual selves.

Yes, many carry many pains from broken or lost relations or relations that met with loss. But, one cannot get back to base to be and live fully, until they open up, first with themselves about what are their ache’s… One can’t heal what they have not taken the choice to acknowledge. Facing such pains and fears is the first step to rebuilding ones spirit.

Some express and open up about their challenges, and in doing so, they are stepping toward finding means to heal their situations, so they can move on to build love in their lives that fulfills the spiritual nature within themselves, that they many feel open and motivated to share it. They tread with cautions of care, as they have come to know the need for spirit filled companionship, and the want to honor the spirituality of loving.

Others may wrap themselves within forms of “wrath”, where they carry an anger that lingers and in the lingering, it takes more from them, than the exercise of wrath can give unto them. A bitter heart will have much challenge with trying to love, they will have many walls that they can’t surmount, which must be removed, before they can move forward freely to love. That means, “growth”!!!

When they desire with a spirit filled passion to grow from ad through the learning, they move on then… with the openness and willingness to love again.

(It is not always easy, and often it is not easy at all, it takes facing things within self, and moving past the game of “blame”, because there is often not a clear answer in the blame game… It’s a spin, that takes one in a downward spiral. And they wonder…. how did they get so far from the ability to “want to build love again”. This in no way, means “casually dismiss what one must give time to learn”…. it simply means; invest in the learning, that one is not trapped by times passage extending itself, to the point it deprives one of the opportunity to give into their years of life, the engagements of loving.

No one can go back and get yesterday, nor can they go back and change what was within yesterday. But one can learn much from yesterday, to make better today, and prepare themselves to seek out better tomorrows. its a choice, that only each “individual” makes for and within themselves. No one else can make that choice for another.

Some hold out based on many things, but one may well consider, what of vanity is within those things… when they figure it out, they can then move on to seek a better “spiritual bonding”. There are some who even when they choose, they are filled with “reservations”, always looking for the “next best things”… be it based on money, looks, or other elements of vanities fancy.

Truth is simple… Look at “older couples”… or Older people in general.. the “youthful image has by such time, changed”, because that is the nature of life. Therefore… is one base it on temporary things, they may be choosing a temporary situations. The same is true of money, “it comes and it goes”, that’s the nature of what is money, it has no value if it does not circulate, as it was by design made to circulate, therefore, it may at time present itself in many “temporary conditions”, some times its more, sometimes it less, sometimes it available, and sometimes it unavailable. And when such temporary things change, people are finding themselves in a variety of loveless situations. Or; looking back at nothing more than a string of many broken relations. Such ones many times, look back, with a mind filled with blames upon the others, but truth finds, they may have learned little of themselves and what role they had in the string of broken relations. If one looks at simple things that tell big stories about what is truths…
When a relation is new, people hit the bed every time they want to be together, but in the span of long term relationships, their bed time engagements, may become something that is not a daily or nightly activity. When age comes, it may even find that it become more infrequent, but by then, they’ve build bonds, that go far and beyond the urgency’s of sexual activities they felt when they first met if it was based more on sex, when the frequency changes, so does their will to stay in the relation, because they have based it on temporary things.

There is no escape from the Truth, other than to embrace it, and become melded within it. that means… on has to come to terms with self, and find the spiritual meaning within themselves of how they consider and hold care for the spirituality of companionship and the respectful grace to think in terms of honor for what is each relationship, they may have attempted. Every relationship has become a part of making whom we as an individual is, at this given time. Therefore, it is of best to find what was good about it and hold that dear, and learn from what was bad about it, and grow from it.

No one can go back and get yesterday, nor can they go back and change what was within yesterday. But one can learn much from yesterday, to make better today, and prepare themselves to seek out better tomorrows. its a choice, that only each “individual” makes for and within themselves. No one else can make that choice for another.

“Strange Stuff and Weird Things”– have consumed many, and caused much tragedy, and destroyed and taken many lives. Because so many, “refuse to think beyond their on vanity, or learn more of themselves through their tribulations and pains” and have resorted to take out vengeance upon and against others and themselves.

Such ones… have by such time… lost the meaning and value of Spiritual Learning, Spiritual Growth, and they have fought away Spiritual Compassion…. And the result has been, and continues to be for such types… a life of Strange Stuff and Weird Things. “They’ve by such point, become a destroyer, of self, and the lives of others, by their mind of wrath upon and against, the same ones, they once thought they loved. They failed to build through spiritual understanding… they based the relation on all the wrong things, and their sense of self measure was based upon worldly things, not spiritual truths.

 

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How Much … Do We Understand Love

It is such a powerful composition of “everything”.   Some of us have experienced love in many ways over the course of our living, family love, friends, lovers, artistry love and the endless perspectives of which love is experienced and expressed.

What we may take pleasure, pride and value to know is, “Every experience of Love’s Expanse” enriches us and becomes a part of whom we are and whom we will continue to become.

Discount none of whom you have loved and shared love for the good things it gave into your being, but equally so, the challenging things help us learn temperament, cautions, tolerances and many other things, including so much about ourselves as too, of loves meanings in our lives.  

Often we have to step through the emotional whirlwind when these loves end their term of interaction.  When we trudge through, as time and its passing come; we too, come to understand so much more about ourselves and others. We strengthen our principles and if we can avoid the anguish spectrum and not hold resentment and bitterness, then we can embrace the joys and pleasures of what we have gained through the experiences.

Love is always the teacher and the preacher within our soul, when we hold fast to appreciate and come to re-appreciate its wondrous gifts.

We, many of us had the “young loves”, they have great impact in our lives – We learn so much about ourselves and we come to learn so much about others; and the experiences of and through their impacts and their emotions as well as many things not even of consciences awareness continue to improve us, as the essence of the one(s) we loved reside within us for the term of our living – overall – making us better in being whom we’ve become.

God gives us these experiences at various times in our living, both in long term and short term spans, some may find itself connected and remain connected in active interactive loving for the span of their collective lives.  Treasure each as being “Beautiful”, as love and its experiences is a great gift Gods glory has blessed us to have and experience.

 

Somebody’s Lover

Its like many things from the sun shining early morning, to the blue skies hidden above the clouds… you gotta wanna be somebody’s lover… !!!!!
This is all within a day…
You never feel so grand nor so full and delightfully light and frisky, until you want to be somebody’s lover.

It makes the troubles turn to nothing but the creative things and ways to find joy with the jigsaw puzzles of living. things take shape and pictures of the heart and vision within the mind become to make up the moments of reality.
Being somebody’s lover… it teaches us to love, but shows us how to enjoy living.
Being somebody’s lover makes us appreciate things otherwise we’d take for granted.

Being somebody’s lover– opens our eyes and inspires our mind, joyful things we find and delights we make and hold tight.

Flowers in the fields become like private gardens of beauty and tumble weeds become of interest watching them move and dance across the desert floor.

Being somebody’s lover.. the blood heats and cleanse the arteries, the heart pumps and all our body comes alive with vigor…. the magic of loving is far beyond a self contained wish and fantasy..
Being somebody’s lover makes all real and give us things so amazing to feel.

We can make games and cheat ourselves from this wondrous feeling, we can manipulate and defeat our own joy, we can play trips and find that we’ve fallen upon ourselves, all the while, we may find we cry, because its ourselves we deny….
Be somebody’s lover, gives life the opportunity to take wings and help us fly in the spirit of life and spread our wings in the joy of loves reality.

We can’t know of loves grace, until we look in somebody’s face , eye to eye, with the desire to be – somebody’s lover without a game or a lie.

Give it a try…. and loving won’t pass you by.

Journey where you Love

~Journey where you Love ~It takes what many fear giving… the simplicity, of appreciation”…
If vanity is your claim to self stature, then you’ve already found the fool within the making of what is yourself.

If you’ve come to thing that fashion is making your more than a person who can give and share, then you’ve cast your own soul into the abyss of being bought for a delusions and pushing nothing more than an illusion.

When you ride the back of a claim of degree and think it has made you above others or another, you’ve already sank to the low and missed the value and the treasure of compassion and respectful regard of others.

if the shape of your #ss and the bulge in your chest has you inflated in the minds, you’ve already diminished what of character that might otherwise be found.

by all means yes care to take care, be of care to maintain a body that is desirable, but let not the eyes of lust make you become a fool, who quickly becomes unaware of how to be a person of grace with a manner and nature of being a communicable social human being.

If you think the attractions of your tease is all that float your boat, you probably will be lost in the sea of life… playing games with ships that pass in the night… by morning you find another day is gone and you are still alone.

why delude yourself to pretend you are a queen, when life facts is that you are not, you ae simply a person, living while you can, because one day you too will pass as is true for us all.
There is no guarantee of tomorrow, but you deny yourself the chance to love today… you fein the appreciations given to you, and act like you detest the desire that is shown of you… and still within self elation and sitting on an imaginary throne,… you still find yourself alone.

Oh how time flies within the delusion so many create within their vanity of self. How little of love so many know, because loving and sharing is something they don’t share nor show.

What does it gain other than delusion that deflate and people claim they have time to wait. Time is a one way gate…

Journey where you “love”… and you may find the delights of living.

                                                           Explore the Experiences

Looking to be “Entertained” ?

[Are you] Looking to be “Entertained’ ?
( Review of such, might reveal much)

If and as many seek out others only to be entertained, then one may be better off simply going to the circus, if they expect to be ‘entertained”..
Unfortunately that is what so many relations are based upon, or turn relationships into expectations of being entertained.. The pursuit and focus of “being entertained” often times becomes the predominant reason so many broken relations come into being within a short time.

“Many people are simply seeking to be “entertained”, the minutes the circus acts stop they are ready to go and claim that love is gone”.

Few want to even explore to see those elements of how they approach and how they function within relationships.as being one who is “seeking to be entertained”.
But upon review, if people listen to what they utter they might find they were chasing infatuation only as long as they felt ‘entertained’.

They never last to get to reality of fact that life involves many other things and as individuals there is whole lives involved, and they might stop to learn : neither is nor will be and neither can be a ‘constant entertainer”.

Fantasy chase of the laugh a minute relations as if it is some mid evening ‘sit-com” is the simplicity and silliness of why people can’t sustain relationships beyond the ‘ infatuated cycle of being the entertainer”.

The minute they have to sit in a moment of silence, they immediately want to ask, “what’s wrong”… instead of accepting the fact that the other may have found contentment by simply sharing the mutual presence in a moment of simple self indulged silence.

We hear all too often, people saying, ” I like him or her, because they make me laugh”... or saying, “they want someone who makes them laugh” , Why Not want someone, to share life and time with… Period. ‘Why does your mate have to become an entertainer, to share time and life experiences with you.

When people based their relation and even their attraction on such things, what they are basically saying is: “they are seeking an entertainer in their desire to be entertained”, they are not seeking a mate to share the cycles of ups down which are an ingrained part of any valued relationship, the human reality is mixed with the cycles of non humor moments and the many things that make up life and living.

The minute someone is not making them laugh they become sullen, instead of learning how to laugh at yourself, laugh with yourself and share the whole of self even when one is not laughing. It is a certain and given fact there is times which bring moment when there is nothing to laugh about. It becomes many more serious considerations that sprang up in the course of living.

Then there are the ones who are always seeking someone to make them laugh, and then in a moment’s situation, they suddenly want to flip to be serious and get angry when the other makes a pun or a humor nature comment. At such times it is very likely the response is: “this is not funny”, followed by “you think everything is a joke”…
But they never stopped to think, “they started the relations and built it and based it on , the other making them laugh”. Too many set up an aim for love, with the concept of relationship being based on “being entertained”..

Enjoy the moments of humor, interject humor as much as is suitable in the relation, but also be of keen awareness that not all moments will be filled with humor, not will all situations lead to an instant laugh.

If people understand that, they may be able to accept being loved even when they are not being “entertained”.

by all means let the natural humor of life be within the relation, but based not your love and loving on someone making you laugh, because at some point, that same basis will also be the point that will make you not want to love…

Accepting love and being loving is of many things, so be careful with the claim of what you base love upon… Lest it be ” I love you, simply because I do”.

Some claim they love, ‘because” they feel financially secure, then the moment the finances changes, they don’t love anymore.
Some claim they love “because” of this or that… and when those things change within the cycles of living, suddenly, they claim they are not in love anymore.

Learn to love – the person as a whole being”, “as an individual” .. and you might learn to love for the sake of loving the person whom you’ve chosen.

… Don’t cry when the laughter is not present, because there is a life behind the show, and the situational entertainer is too a person. And no one stays on the stage without a break within the cycles of entertainment

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But if you are seeking only to be “entertained” – then you can expect to have a short lived relationship… and “you” are probably equally as much of the cause of its shortness.

Do you want love, or do you just like the game of “chase” and “to be chased” ?

Love is no respecter of individuals, love remains what it is, it is universal in what it is, it can function across any man created barrier, or any conjured concept that man hangs on to.
Love does not regard nor favor any ethnicity, nor any skin color,; and it favors no gender or any of such things, and love does not have a preference for any particular age.
Love is of many principles, which can only be embrace mutually by shared honestly and expressive communications.
It remains always a feeling, which has a spiritual connection within the essence of all living beings and things.
It is unique in being what it is, and it bring about the uniqueness of each individual –
We as people blind ourselves with the deceptions of our own eyes and many times the lusting for the material matter that is surely to come and go with time…
Yet, love is of the spirit, and it is everlasting as being Love.

Those who can endure the many emotions within what makes up love, will find more love… within the truths and honesty they live and share.

You can try and steal the sweetness as if robbing honey from a honey comb, and one may get stung by the bee’s – but with love, the bee’s yield their honey and continue to make more.

Most can’t find love, because many refuse to let go of their own selfishness.

Love is to be shared as freely as the breeze shares it comforts, Love is to be shared the same as sunshine denies no plant the nourishment’s it needs to live.

So many delude themselves to only see the fantasy of their lust for romantic fancy, but neglect to consider and some don’t care for the labors and works that are embedded within Love.

Many who find that 40- 50 and beyond years of love, have learned to give and share freely… and each will tell you of the many sacrifices and change and growths they have gone through to build such an enduring loving relation… simply because they cared to ” Love’

The world is lonely only when our selfishness brings us to ignore and deny to engage the works of loving. which is simply learning to share and communicate, to respect and appreciate, to work to understand and work on being understood..
when the selfishness of individual, make an individual lazy and fearful of such things, then they have made themselves lonely, by their denial to embrace Love, and become one who is sharing the expressions and exchanges of loving.

Seek not love through sympathy by the cries of desperation.. but share what of love you know and what of loving you have to share in jubilation… and time will find one enchanted within a loving relation.

“The Perfect Person”

“The Perfect Person”

A delusion… that confounds many

The adult sized fantasy of “a perfect person”, is probably one of the elements of imagination and delusion, that has driven people “mad” for Centuries upon Centuries.

Temptations will always haunt the individual, and the illusion of perfect is not even a conceptual image in the minds of an individual, because every day, they will want to change something else about the other, and themselves.

It’s amazing how we can be adults and claim to be so intelligent and so learned and then become less equipped than an infant in our concepts of how to simply appreciate the uniqueness of the individualism of human existence.

It seems the older some get the more insidious they become, in search of a delusion that they themselves have not found out how to live up to even within themselves.

The Grand Delusion seems to be a sickness that comes with the concepts of claiming to be learned people. maybe it’s why many of the poor and those nation and people around the world who don’t claim such high intellect, still know how to love for the sake and principle of love, even when they are without the conveniences, and the luxuries that the so claimed learn have in abundance.

The great paradox of “self-delusion” is not a sickness that many seem not to want diagnosed nor will they acknowledge the need for the diagnosis.

Loving don’t give a damn about anyone’s claim of degree or work status titles, at best it can and will continue to make them try and see how foolish their aim and claim of reliance on such, brings them to see that none of such claims can ever nor will ever give nor guarantee them any claim to a care free “love”…
And most people run around looking for a ‘care free” love, and caught in the delusion of the chase of such, until they can’t many time figure out how to love themselves enough to have it over flow into wanting to share it with someone else. Instead, they are lost in their status titles and their claims of be learned. But they are and often times become only more pronounced in their ignorance of what is love and what is the nature of works required within loving.

Today, we have more and more people who claim themselves too good for building love, because they are too absorbed in their titles, and their claims of status they focus upon to try and embellish their titles. And the result is a mass of loveless people, who claim to be so learned. None of which love as the fact and principle of what is love cares one bit about such. We can see broke people who live on the streets who have love far greater and strong than some of those who claim to have degrees layered on top of degree’s or who have titles that pay them a kings bounty, and they often times become the worst at loving.

They try to outsmart love, and find themselves feeling more foolish as they wallow in their aloneness and crafted delusion of trying to outsmart the principles of love.

There will be many more to sit on a bench, withering to their skeletal selves, all the while deluding themselves to thing they are too smart and too learn and their titles and status claims make them too arrogant and haughty to know that love cannot be bought nor contained by such vain things. When truth and fact is, love flees quickly from Ignorance, and love does not bond itself within the haughty mind, nor does it seek to duel with the delusion of foolishness.

The adult sized fantasy of “a perfect person”, is probably one of the elements of imagination and delusion, that has driven people “mad” for Centuries upon Centuries..
Temptations will always haunt the individual, and the illusion of perfect is not even a conceptual image in the minds of an individual, because every day, they will want to change something else about the other, and themselves.

It’s amazing how we can be adults and claim to be so intelligent and so learned and then become less equipped than an infant in our concepts of how to simply appreciate the uniqueness of the individualism of human existence.

It seems the older some get the more insidious they become, in search of a delusion that they themselves have not found out how to live up to even within themselves.

The Grand Delusion seems to be a sickness that comes with the concepts of claiming to be learned people. maybe it’s why many of the poor and those nation and people around the world who don’t claim such high intellect, still know how to love for the sake and principle of love, even when they are without the conveniences, and the luxuries that the so claimed learn have in abundance.

The great paradox of “self-delusion” is now a sickness that many seem not to want diagnosed nor will they acknowledge the need for the diagnosis. “Self vanity seems to not allow the desire of such truth”.

Loving don’t give a damn about anyone’s claim of degree or work status titles, at best it can and will continue to make them try and see how foolish their aim and claim of reliance on such, brings them to see that none of such claims can ever nor will ever give nor guarantee them any claim to a care free “love”…
And most people run around looking for a ‘care free” love, and caught in the delusion of the chase of such, until they can’t many time figure out how to love themselves enough to have it over flow into wanting to share it with someone else. Instead, they are lost in their status titles and their claims of be learned. but they are and often times become only more pronounced in their ignorance of what is love and what is the nature of works required within loving.

Today, we have more and more people who claim themselves too good for building love, because they are too absorbed in their titles, and their claims of status they focus upon to try and embellish their titles. And the result is a mass of loveless people, who claim to be so learned.
None of which composes love, as of being what is Love, nor is any of such the fact and principle of what is love is; such things, Love, cares not one bit about such. For Love is itself, fulfilled in being itself.

We can see broke people who live on the streets who have love far greater and strong than some of those who claim to have degrees layered on top of degree’s or who have titles that pay them a kings bounty, and they often times become the worst at loving.
They try to outsmart love, and find themselves feeling more foolish as they wallow in their aloneness and crafted delusion of trying to outsmart the principles of love.

There will be many more to sit on a bench, withering to their skeletal selves, all the while deluding themselves to think they are too smart and too learn and their titles and status claims make them too arrogant and haughty to know that love cannot be bought nor contained by such vain things. When truth and fact is, love flees quickly from Ignorance, and love does not bond itself within the haughty mind, nor does it seek to duel with the delusion of foolishness.

Love is the gift that lives in the shared lives of the humbled.

Education degree not required, money, not required, title nor status is required, for all such things have a proclivity to become vanity, and vanity is a vexing demeanor to what the essence and nature of beauty of that which love is.

Such things of vanity, only enrages the regenerating 20 head dragon that guards love, when they come with all their vain acclaims and crafted schemes.

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For the 20 head dragon only yields the gift of Loves endless graces, unto the humbled, who pursue the engagement unto loves many wonders within loving, who seek to know and to share “LOVE” within and through the honestly of Loving.

One can take money and buy a delusion of a million flairs, and by status claims one can impress a fool, to chase a delusion by painting imagines of illusions…
But unto love, only the humbled and honest who seek with truth of passion to love and be loving and accept the embrace of being loved, can truly know and behold the wonders of Love through humbleness unto loves graces and accept the duties within loves works.

Such a simple thing, many become too haughty within themselves to care to learn and many care even less to seek to understand, therefore.. Many fail to gain the wisdom’s of loves truths.

Love is the gift that lives in the shared lives of the humbled.

Education degree not required, money, not required, title nor status is required, for all such things have a proclivity to become vanity, and vanity is a vexing demeanor to what the essence and nature of beauty of that which love is.

 

Such things of vanity, only enrages the regenerating 20 head dragon that guards love, when they come with all their vain acclaims and crafted schemes,  for the 20 head dragon only yields to the humbled, who pursue the engagement unto loves many wonders within loving who seek to know and share love.

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Love is no respecter of individuals, love remains what it is, it is universal in what it is, it can function across any man created barrier, or any conjured concept that man hangs on to.
Love does not regard nor favor any ethnicity, nor any skin color,; and it favors no gender or any of such things, and love does not have a preference for any particular age.
Love is of many principles, which can only be embrace mutually by shared honestly and expressive communications.
It remains always a feeling, which has a spiritual connection within the essence of all living beings and things.
It is unique in being what it is, and it bring about the uniqueness of each individual –
We as people blind ourselves with the deceptions of our own eyes and many times the lusting for the material matter that is surely to come and go with time…
Yet, love is of the spirit, and it is everlasting as being Love.

Those who can endure the many emotions within what makes up love will find more love… within the truths and honesty they live and share.

You can try and steal the sweetness as if robbing honey from a honey comb and one may get stung by the bees – but with love, the bee’s yield their honey and continue to make more.

Most can’t find love, because many refuse to let go of their own selfishness.

Love is to be shared as freely as the breeze shares it comforts, Love is to be shared the same as sunshine denies no plant the nourishment’s it needs to live.

So many delude themselves to only see the fantasy of their lust for romantic fancy, but neglect to consider and some don’t care for the labors and works that are embedded within Love.

Many who find that 40- 50 and beyond years of love, have learned to give and share freely… and each will tell you of the many sacrifices and change and growths they have gone through to build such an enduring loving relation… simply because they cared to ” Love’

The world is lonely only when our selfishness brings us to ignore and deny to engage the works of loving. Which is simply learning to share and communicate, to respect and appreciate, to work to understand and work on being understood..
when the selfishness of individual, make an individual lazy and fearful of such things, then they have made themselves lonely, by their denial to embrace Love, and become one who is sharing the expressions and exchanges of loving.

Seek not love through sympathy by the cries of desperation. But share what of love you know and what of loving you have to share in jubilation… and time will find one enchanted within a loving relation.

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